Dating a guarded person
There may be a reason why he seems untouchable or why intimacy seems to scare him.More than likely he has been hurt before and he hasn’t had a chance to get over it.He may very well like you and want to be with you, but he’s not quite sure how to show that emotion.Many men are scared of what happened in the past and this holds them back from sharing themselves totally.: Show him that you’re him but don’t scare him off in the process.
Don’t come on too strong or try too hard, but let him see that he can trust you.
After a heavy night of drinking he confessed that he was scared to get into another relationship because he associates them with pain and feeling trapped. It dawned on me that he probably had one foot out the door the entire time.
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