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I was looking to get away from the city, so I accepted, of course, booking my own hotel room, and arriving days late on my own schedule.We spent the following days hanging out, walking the beach, but still keeping things platonic.While I know I wasn’t the first black woman he ever had sex with, he was the first White American that I had ever let into such an intimate space.Prior to that, I had shared my body with White Brasilians and Argentineans. This made me feel like my growth had come full circle, as I struggled growing up in a predominately White Jersey suburb to feel like interracial dating was an option for a young Black woman.He had met and pursued a local Brasilian girl who was beyond sweet.And frankly, I just wouldn’t let my guard down to the idea of hooking up with a white American guy when there were so many Afro-Brasilian men in my surroundings.While young Black men certainly enjoyed relationships with young White women in my town, Black girls rarely were seen exploring the same types of relationships. But the opportunities weren’t equal or treated the same.I grew up believing a number of stereotypes about non-Black men, especially when it came to sex.

He finger fucks her with 3 or 4 fingers before she gobbles his knob. And he bangs the shit out of her until his cock explodes.I returned to the city to continue living my life, and we kept in touch through semi-frequent Skype chats about our lives as Americans in Brasil. I had opened a different chapter in my dating life, one that included more interracial dating than relationships with Black men in Brasil.So when we hung out, all of the sudden our platonic friendship transformed into a prospect, even though it had likely already been a prospect for him months back.So I often find myself second guessing if I should approach a Caucasian girl that I may have a crush on or just generally think is cute because I don’t want to have to feel defensive if someone asks me how we met or when we started dating.

His White European friends dared him to go and talk to that Black Brasilian girl sitting on the beach, who was really a Black American girl in disguise.

I’ve always been confused because I’ve dated all kinds of woman (and I plan on continuing to do that), but there’s a perception that if I were to settle down and marry a Caucasian woman than I’ve officially become a sellout.